Assalam alaikum warahmatullahe wabarkatohu,
Dear brothers and sisters,as we know that husband wife relationship is most beautiful relationship in this world.
It is the only relationship ( except friendship) for which we choose and we can break so it is also true that it is one of the critical relationship among human beings.
After married a girl become wife of her husband and she now become dependent upon her husband (generally)
In Islamic society husband role is to earn money for his family and wife role is as a home maker, because physically men are stronger than women they can do hard work and survive environmental and social problems better than women
Men brings many things to home for his family, and also gives money to his wife for saving,
Therefore a question arises that-
can wife give someone else few amount or any gift without concern of her husband ?
Let us know what Islam says about this-
It was narrated from ‘Amr bin Shu’aib, from his father that he delivered:
“It is not permissible (allowable) for a woman to dispose of her wealth except with her husband’s permission, once he has married her (i.e. after her marriage)”
Sunan ibn majah 14
Actually Islam disapprove that a woman give any gift or something else from her husband’s earning without his concern.
If she has to given something to someone else she simply ask from her husband and take permission.
There is a logic behind such things because
- it will improve their relationship
- it will also enhance mutual love between them
- It will also give a feeling of trust in the mind of husband for his wife he will think that how loyal his wife is actually for him
Mey Almighty Allah guide us in his way, Aamin